Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, April 16, 2018

Life Happens by Diane Burton


Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans. ~ John Lennon

I should stencil John Lennon’s quote on the inside of my eyelids. This has not been my best year, writing-wise. Oh, 2018 started great with lots of energy, ideas galore, a plan to release three novels this year. For two weeks, I was going great guns on the fourth Alex O’Hara mystery. Then, for some weird reason (which I won’t go into), I quit that book to finish one that I thought was 75% done. It wasn’t, but I’d committed to it.

Enter the doldrums of 2018. Winter blues, depression. Whatever. I was stalled during the month of February. I wrote but not as much as I could have. With March, spring was in the air. Sort of. For a day or two we had sunshine. Hurray! My energy returned. The finish line was in sight, just 10k words to write. I had the outline done, just needed to go from “telling” to “showing.” And I was looking forward to celebrating Easter with my family.

That’s when Life slapped me up the side of the head and said, “Unh uh.” I woke up one morning with a vicious sore throat and a cough. I guess Life thought I needed to remember all those people who got influenza, even those who’d gotten the shot, those who ended up in the hospital. When family members (Hubs included) had gotten hit with bad colds, I escaped. I couldn’t believe it. How lucky could I get!

My luck ran out. No Easter with the family, not with coughing my head off. Finally, I was bullied (Hubs and daughter) into going to the doctor. Guess what? Doctors take Spring Break, too. Off to Urgent Care, where I was diagnosed with pneumonia. Say what? That explained the lack of energy, difficulty breathing with the least exertion, wanting to sleep all the time.

Along with no physical energy, my creative energy disappeared. Even reading was too hard. So was Facebook and email. Binge-watching Netflix was all I could manage. Life must have thought I needed downtime while one course of antibiotics worked. Recheck at the doctor’s showed an ear and sinus infection. Another course of antibiotics. More downtime. After all that, I am feeling better. I even got to see the grandkids last week. Talk about withdrawal. I hadn't seen them in over two weeks.

The plan to finish my romantic suspense (Number Never Lie) by Easter didn’t happen. That pushed back the release by Mother’s Day even farther. I'm almost afraid to mention a release date. I’m disappointed, but what can I do? Buckle down again. Keep on truckin’.


We make plans, and Life laughs.


Diane Burton combines her love of mystery, adventure, science fiction, and romance into writing romantic fiction. She blogs here on the 16th and 30th of each month. She shares snippets from Numbers Never Lie every weekend on her blog.


Friday, July 4, 2014

Crazy Good

“I must be crazy to be in a loony bin like this.” McMurphy from One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.

I’ve never seen the movie, but this quote could have been pulled from my own head. It’s one of those lines that cuts through the stress of everyday life. When things feel off-the-charts hectic (which happens way more than I’d like it to), it’s easier to blame it on craziness than admitting that this is actually my life.

My life that often appears to be happening at warp speed.

My life that isn’t always what I imagined it to be.

My life that I’ve been hard at work constructing over the last 40 years (yeah, I turn 40 in two days, whoohoo).

My life that sometimes I’d like to deconstruct and reassemble in a completely different arrangement, preferably with me living in Hawaii and running a cool little hangout right on the beach.

My life that has been mostly a wonderful gift.

My life that is what I make of it.

So, yeah, I’ll take the crazy, because without it, I probably wouldn’t enjoy the awesome as much. Coming home to family and laughing with friends (both enhanced by a glass of wine, by the way) at the end of a wild day brings much comfort and chances to see what is truly important in life. Many times we run like hamsters in a wheel.

go-go-go-go

run-run-run-run

faster-faster-faster

And what do we have to show for it? Nothing. Just like the freakin’ hamster. Sure, our thighs look great from all that running, but we haven’t really accomplished anything that means something to anybody.

This fourth of July, take a moment to breathe. To enjoy. To smell the roses… or burgers on the grill. Make a plan to do something different with your freedom. There are opportunities all around us to make small changes that will have big effects on your happiness and quite possibly the happiness of others.

Hop off the wheel. Break out of the loony bin. Do it. 

Toodles,
Chris
www.christinedepetrillo.weebly.com