Life's Joys by Barbara Edwards

I'm writing this on the fly since I almost forgot my post date.

Let me fill you in on my schedule.

I had two weddings to attend. One was planned for a year with all the angst and worry about getting it right. Both the bride, my grand-daughter, and groom are in the Navy. And it was a beautiful service; Perfect. Of course the photos are on my husband's camera.

The other was planned in two weeks when the bride, my husband's grand-daughter, called her father and said she was getting married at the town hall. "No daughter of mine is doing that!" And the family found a lovely location, planned the reception, found dresses for the bridesmaids, a wedding cake and placeholders. My cell phone died as the bride walked up the aisle. Go figure.

The bride is in the Army. The groom in the Marines and his best man flew in from Hawaii for the ceremony.

Both events made me cry.

Then there were two graduations from high school.

Two confirmations and three birthdays.

So my writing schedule was messy to say the least.

A swearing in for the military for my grand-son.

Plus the family picnic for the Fourth of July.

Here are a scattering of photos from the happy events.
I hope your life is as full of joy.

To Event or Not to Event, by Christine DePetrillo

Do you participate in book signing events as an author and/or a reader? I go to them as an author, but not as a reader. Is that weird? I’m an avid reader. I eat books. If someone said you can only have books or chocolate, but not both, I’d pick books… about chocolate. Just kidding.

Maybe.

Seriously though, why is it that I feel compelled to haul myself to book signing events to sell and sign my own books, but don’t salivate over the possibility of attending such events to gush over my favorite authors? I have a million of them. This is kind of a mystery to me. I’d like to get to the bottom of it. Someday.

In the meantime, here are my top five reasons to attend book signing events as an author:

1. To meet fabulous readers in person – I can’t tell you how much joy it gives me to be in the presence of people who have read my books and have liked—maybe even loved—them. People who want to follow my characters as they fall in love. These people are the reasons why I continue to write. Without them, I’d have lost my writing fuel a long time ago. A big thanks to all readers!

2. To get my books in new readers’ hands – This is about promoting and marketing. Sure, I love my current readers, but I’ve got a heart big enough to accommodate MORE readers. I want them to enjoy my work, get sucked in, and anxiously wait for my new books. I’ll admit it – I want FANS!

3. To scout out what other authors are writing – I snoop at book signing events. I peruse the other authors’ tables to see what they think makes a good book. Sometimes I agree. Sometimes I don’t. But at the end of the event, I’ve got a finger on the pulse of what other writers are producing. I’ve also been watching which tables get the most traffic and ponder the whys of it. I like to learn from these events as much as I like to sell and sign stuff.

4. To role play – I’ll admit it, my life as an elementary teacher is fairly “ordinary.” When I attend these book signing events, however, I get to be a Romance Novelist. It’s kind of sexy and mysterious and attendees are wondering, “Where does she get her ideas? Has she done some of the things in her books? What kind of research did she have to do to get that scene right? Are Black Wolf Tavern and The Clumsy Grasshopper real bars?” I get to put on another hat and play for a few hours. It’s fun!

5. To goof around with fellow authors – This might be my favorite part of book signing events. Writing is a solitary endeavor. It’s just me, my laptop, and some cuddly pets for most of the journey. I interact a bit with my editor and cover artist. I bounce ideas off of critique partners. But essentially I’m alone in my process, talking to my fictional characters, who quite surprisingly, answer me back on a regular basis. I attend book signing events to connect and be surrounded by other folks who “get” what it means to be an author. Not everyone does, you know. Plus, I’ve made some great author friends whose antics at these events I wouldn’t miss. (Like, I leave some of these shindigs with a stomachache from laughing so hard. Ask author Heather Rigney of The Merrow Trilogy. She’ll corroborate.)

 

So those are the reasons I hop on board the book signing party train as an author every now and then. Maybe one of these days I’ll go to one purely as a reader. Give that whirl and see what happens.

What are your thoughts on book signing events? Yay? Nay? Only if you’re forced to? Not if you’re life depended on it? Once a year? As often as possible? Only as an author? Only as a reader?

Toodles,

Chris

www.christinedepetrillo.weebly.com

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