(This is the article I wrote for this month's Novel Notes Newsletter (an author newsletter that Leah, Diane, myself, and my critique partners put out together)...I hope it's okay that I cut corners :))
It
cannot be April, 2016 already, can it? Where has the first quarter of this year
gone? Where have the last 10 years gone? The last 30? I know it’s an expression, that time flies by
quickly, but it really, really does. Is it just because I’m getting older or is
it the insanely busy world we live in today? Or…what? I don’t know, but I’m
truly amazed at the way time literally speeds by. It seems as though my
children were babies only moments ago, and now they are 32, 30, and
23...impossible!
As
it turns out, studies have been done on this very topic (surprised? I didn’t
think so, what topic HASN’T been studied?)
Some
of the theories on why time zips by so quickly as we are are...
1. We gauge time by memorable events.
In
1890, psychologist William James hypothesized that humans measure time by
memorable events. Since so many exciting and new experiences take place when
we’re younger (first kiss, driver’s license, prom, graduation, etc), the events
seem to have happened over a much longer time span.
2. The amount of time passed relative to
one’s age varies.
For
a 5-year-old, one year is 20% of their entire life. For a 50-year-old, however,
one year is only 2% of their life. This “ratio theory,” proposed by Janet in
1877, suggests that we are constantly comparing time intervals with the total
amount of time we’ve already lived.
3. Our biological clock slows as we age.
With
aging may come the slowing of some sort of internal pacemaker. Relative to the
unstoppable clocks and calendars, external time suddenly appears to pass more
quickly.
4. As we age, we pay less attention to
time.
When
you’re a kid on December 1, you’re faithfully counting down the days until
Santa brings your favorite Hot Wheels down the chimney. When you’re an adult on
December 1, you’re a little more focused on work, bills, family life,
scheduling, deadlines, travel plans, Christmas shopping, and all of that other
boring adult stuff. The more attention one focuses on tasks such as these, the
less one will notice the passage of time.
5. Stress, stress, and more stress.
The
feeling that there is not enough time to get things done may be reinterpreted
as the feeling that time is passing too quickly. Even older individuals (who
are, more often than not, retired from work) may continue to feel similarly due
to physical handicaps or diminished cognitive ability.
SO...when
you wake up tomorrow, and it’s already Christmas, just know that it happened so
quickly due to your advanced age. Feel better? :)
Since our time IS so limited, I have been sharing weekly 'Two-Minute' tips on my blog for a while now. I decided to publish these tips in a book, and it was just released last Friday. It's 99 cents for a limited time...
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