One of the great things about a writing career is the
wonderful people you meet—in person and online. Writing is a solitary
occupation. We hide in our caves, writing away all day. To our families, it
looks like we’re doing nothing. When I’m staring out the window, I don’t see
the mounds of dirty snow or gray skies. I’m plotting who will be the next
victim. Only another writer “gets” that. And only another writer understands
when we hit a wall and can’t write.
A couple of years ago, I discovered the Insecure
Writers Support Group. It’s a combination blog hop/therapy session. Our
purpose is “to share and encourage.
Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or
weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance.
It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!” Once a month, we talk about
our doubts and the fears we have conquered. We discuss our struggles and triumphs
and offer words of encouragement for others who are struggling.
Last Wednesday, I
wrote about how my writing was in the doldrums. Like sailors in the ocean
without wind, I was stuck. I hadn’t written anything on my current WIP (the 3rd
Alex O’Hara book) since the beginning of November. I can attribute some of that
to finishing the edits on The Case of the
Fantastic FiancĂ© (2nd Alex O’Hara novel), getting it published,
then promoting it. Then there were the holidays, being in Arizona for six
weeks, returning home, recovering from jetlag, and getting acclimated to cold
and snow again. Excuses, excuses, excuses.
From past
experiences, I know how helpful the IWSG members were, but I was blown over by
the help and encouragement. From butt-kicking (definitely needed) to simple
suggestions like open the file and read what I’d already written. So I did just
that. I opened the file. Since Thursday, I’ve written over 2300 words on The Case of the Meddling Mama. Wow. All
because some kind writer said open the file.
IWSG isn’t the only
group of writers who support and help each other. A fantastic group called
Authors Helping Authors (many of the Roses belong to this group organized by
our own Alicia Dean) share tweets and Facebook posts about each other’s books.
We also share triumphs and defeats, cheering and commiserating. I also belong
to an RWA chapter, Mid-Michigan RWA. We meet face to face as well as online. Another place where
writers help each other. Sometimes, just by listening. Each month we (those who want to) do a modified version of NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month). We set goals and report in. There is something about others knowing your goal that makes you add an extra push to complete it. Again, we're there to cheer each other on and help each other up.
I truly believe if
not for the support and encouragement of the members of these groups (and
others) that I would have given up by now. Sharing information, celebrating,
offering shoulders to cry on and pats on the back.
What would we do without
these wonderful people?
Diane
Burton writes romantic adventure . . . stories that take place on Earth and
beyond. She blogs here on the 8th and 30th of each month and on Mondays on her
own site: http://dianeburton.blogspot.com/
