Sunday, August 19, 2018

What to Give, Elvis, and Writing Tips by Alicia Dean


As usual, I didn't prepare a blog post ahead of time, procrastinator that I am. So, I thought I'd share a few things that are on my mind. 

1) Giveaways - I believe it was on our loop where there was a discussion about what to give away to readers? Someone mentioned that they'd given away a gift card and the recipient thanked them and told them they were buying Nora's books. Yes, that's a risk when you give a gift card. But then, if you give away your book, then those who are 'entering to win' have no reason to buy it. Sure, we have other books, but still, the act of giving away a book doesn't seem to be a great promo tool. I like to give away items that are representative of my book, such as, in Haunting at Spook Light Inn, a spinel pendant was part of the story. I found a reasonably priced pendant on Amazon that was similar to the one in the story and I did a few giveaways with small goodie bags that included the pendant. Did it help my sales? Who knows? But, it was a fun attention-getter. The thing is, if your book doesn't appeal to people, they aren't going to read it, buy it, and like it, regardless of what you give away. As most of you know, I have a Kindle Rafflecopter giveaway I do each month, where authors pitch in $6 each and they can submit a task they want entrants to do. It helps increase your followers, likes, etc, although, of course, that still doesn't mean entrants will buy your book. However, it does give you a bit of exposure and, if they like what they see, they'll stick around and maybe buy your books. No guarantees, but there are no guarantees in life anyway, right?

2) Anyone who knows me or is a FB friend, etc, knows how much I love Elvis Presley. Thursday was the 41st anniversary of his death. Also, December 3, 1968 is the 50th anniversary of his '68 Comeback Special, which was an iconic, critically acclaimed show and was touted as being his best performance ever. At the time the show was produced, Elvis hadn't been in front of a live audience since he left for the army in 1958. When he returned in 1960, he began making movies and was not touring. He was so nervous about being in front of an audience again, but you certainly couldn’t tell it.  The show is/was shown in movie theaters all over the country on August 16 and August 20th. My sister and I went to see it Thursday, and wow...I never get tired of it, even though I saw it IN 1968 when it was released and I was seven years old, and I've watched it countless times since. The theater, one of three in the OKC area showing it, was packed with people of all ages. I ran into one of my writer friends there. We both want to go again Monday. :) It's phenomenal that, 41 years after his death, he still has such a following. Like him or not, it can't be denied that he was one of a kind. Here's a clip from the show:





A pic I took of the screen, just because. :)



3) I ran across this blog post again, having read it a while back, and I thought I'd share. There are some fantastic tips, especially for someone like me who constantly lets other things come before my writing. 


Lastly, I'd like to once again thank the Roses for your kind thoughts and the beautiful card when my mother passed. She was a special person and I was so blessed to have her for a mother. Friday evening, I saw one of my friends for the first time since Mom passed and she told me she was sorry, and that, from what everyone was saying about Mom, I'm a lot like her, I have her caring spirit and desire to help others, so I will always carry her with me. I cried, of course, but her words also gave me a warm, peaceful feeling. It’s not exactly accurate, I can’t begin to compare to the person my mother was, but it was a lovely sentiment.


Mom and I at her 79th birthday celebration

26 comments:

Jannine Gallant said...

I bet you're just like your mom! I'm off to check out those writing tips.

Darcy Flynn said...

Lovely post, Alicia. I too loved Elvis’ ‘68 comeback special and recall watching it on TV at the time with my mother. A special memory for sure!

Susan Coryell said...

I still say Elvis's Hawaii concert was his very best--of course I love Hawaii as well as Elvis so it goes to the top of my list!
Fun post!
P.S. You ARE thoughtful and caring as an editor, the way I know you best.

Leah St. James said...

Elvis' '68 special is one of my all-time favorite Elvis shows, Ally. He was so full of life and fun, and that's how I like to remember him. Thanks for the writing tips. I think this is my favorite bit of advice:

"Excuses are doubts hiding in disguise. The more excuses you have, (which all sound valid), the more doubt is eating you up.

"Doubt is the true culprit, not time, family, or anything else we might blame."

So true for me!

Maureen said...

Great post! I'm never sure what a reader would like as a prize, but usually stick with small gift cards since I never get out shopping enough to get the cute gifts/trinkets. But I admit, as a reader I love the trinkets (and the gift cards ;)

Alicia Dean said...

I would love to think so, Jannine, thank you. :) Hope you find something worthwhile in the tips!

Alicia Dean said...

Thank you, Darcy. Yes, it brought back so many memories for me and my sister.

Alicia Dean said...

Susan, I also loved Aloha From Hawaii. It was spectacular. One of my favorites was That's the Way It Is. I never saw a BAD Elvis performance. :) Thank you for the sweet words!

Alicia Dean said...

Hi Leah, yes, he was at his peak then, I believe. Those tips definitely resonate with me. I sometimes feel locked up and inadequate when I write. We have to stop letting those things prevent us from writing!

Alicia Dean said...

Hi Maureen...thank you! Yes, as a reader, the gift cards and trinkets are my favorite too.

Nightingale said...

Thanks for sharing that clip. He was a sexy performer and it's hard to beat the King at anything!

Margo Hoornstra said...

It’s all good, Ally. I like your attitude about promo. It is what it is, right? While not quite the fan like you, I never tire of listening to Elvis sing - anything. What a voice, and he truly seemed like a.very nice person. I lost my mom thirty years ago now, though she’s always in my heart. I see her in my daughters and granddaughter too. In that sene, she lives on. Having met you in person, I agree, you do have a caring spirit and desire to help others. Keep it going. ;-) Hugs.

Diane Burton said...

I lost my mom over ten years ago. It's still hard to think of her not being with us. She and my MIL (who died 6 months later) would have loved to know the rest of my grandkids. They only met the 1st and never met my son's wife. For that, I am sad. Sad, that my DIL and g'kids never got to know her.

Elvis is always a joy to listen to, esp. his ballads.

Vonnie Davis said...

Elvis was a once in a lifetime performer. I enjoy revisiting him, too.

I'm sure you are very much like your mother. You strike me as a very caring and supportive person. Enjoy the qualities this wonderful woman passed onto you. Hugs, my friend.

Alina K. Field said...

I could use some writing tips today! Thanks for sharing.

Unknown said...

I so love the picture!

Alicia Dean said...

My pleasure, Linda...thank you for stopping by, and I couldn't agree more!

Alicia Dean said...

Hi Margo. Yes, even those who are not 'super fans' can still appreciate his extraordinary talent. I understand how the loss of your mom still hurts. I lost my daddy in '94 and I still miss him. I'm sure I'll miss my mother the rest of my life. Awww, thank you for the sweet words. You're pretty great yourself. Hugs...

Alicia Dean said...

Yes, Diane, it's heartbreaking to think of what our children, grandchildren, etc, miss out on by not knowing those who've passed. I like to think that our loved ones are watching over us and 'know' the little ones in a way.

His ballads are my favorite too, I think. Hard to pick!

Alicia Dean said...

Hi Vonnie...I agree! His music is timeless. I doubt he'll ever be forgotten, however long this world of ours lasts. Thank you, sweet lady, for the kind words. Hugs!

Alicia Dean said...

You're welcome, Alinka. I can always use writing tips. :) Hope they helpe!

remullins said...

Hunka Hunka good advice.

Rolynn Anderson said...

Sorry I'm late with this, Alicia. Thanks for sharing your love for Elvis and the comments about your mother. Tender Loving...Elvis sang about it!

Connie Bretes said...

I had to laugh at RE Mullins post. I had the singing firemen sing hunka hunka burning love in my book, Blue As Sapphires. LOL. Off to go see those writing tips.

Diana Rubino said...

Beautiful post, Alicia.... I loved Elvis, too; he was a special human being and a gift from God.
Diana

Brenda Whiteside said...

I've been tied up with family so just got to this. Nice post, Alicia. How wonderful to be compared to a loved mother.