Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Thursday, January 4, 2018

Show 2018 Who's the Boss! by Christine DePetrillo


I've decided I don't like the word "resolutions." The term isn't aggressive enough for me.  I feel as if you can let resolutions fall to the wayside too easily. I prefer "goals." New Year's Goals.

Yeah, much better. Now I feel as if I HAVE to meet them. I have to show 2018 that I'm in charge. I'm the boss. I mean business!

So here we go...

5. Release the rest of my Warrior Wolves series. I have the remaining three books written. They just need editing, cover art, and uploading. This should take me through the year pretty well as I usually release three books a year. I'll of course be working on another series, especially since I took the entire month of December off from writing as I usually do. I've got a series based on acts of kindness sketched out (with two books in that series written and plans for number three), so I have plenty to keep me busy. I look forward to inventing new book boyfriends.

4. Collaborate with other authors. I want to continue having a blast with author Amanda Torrey in our reader Facebook group, Small Town Hearts, and the two of us might just be cooking up some other fun. Stay tuned. If you're not a member of Small Town Hearts, come join us. We have such a cozy spot on the internet.

3. Achieve balance. With the above two writing-related goals, I must remember to also take time to... you know... live. I get so wrapped up in my pursuits that sometimes I forget to have fun. Okay, okay. I OFTEN forget to have fun. I must change that. I'm not getting any younger (and the search for a vampire to turn me has remained unsuccessful).

2. Stay physically active. As mentioned in #3, I'm not getting any younger so I feel the need to move more. I can keep time from catching up to me if I just walk and hike a little faster, a little farther. The dog will help me with this one.

1. Be happy. This is all about having a positive attitude because it makes all the difference. Happy people imagine themselves to be happy and then that becomes their reality.

What are your goals for 2018?

Toodles,
Chris
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Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Goal setting by Barbara Edwards


Glacier National Park

The only way to accomplish anything is to set a goal. Authors know about goals. We set them constantly to reach the final goal of a finished manuscript.

What must you do?
Shanondoah Valley

Set a finish date and figure out how many pages must be written daily to reach that number by that date.

This is my big failing. I don’t have a finish date so I fiddle around, do research, read a book, whatever.
Gettysburg

I need to be tough with myself.

I need to make myself work.

With this decision in mind, I made an editor appointment at National. I need to have a finished manuscript to pitch. Well, I do have one, but I’m not happy with it.
Niagra Falls

I want to have another done and it is in the pipe. I’m typing daily, planning to have two manuscripts ready as well as the ones I have in partials.

The importance of goal setting crossed my mind because I did accomplish a ‘bucket list’ goal.
Redwoods

My husband and I have visited all 50 states. Yes, 50. It took us over twenty years, but we are excited and pleased. 

Now on to the next one. I think visiting all the National Parks is next. Only 160+. 

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Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Seven Things I Will Try to Love

“The way to know life is to love many things.” ~ Van Gogh

Well, this quote is just begging for a list, don’t you think?

Seven Things I Will Try to Love This Month (Yeah, seven, because everybody always does ten.)

1.      Mornings – My nemesis, The Morning, greets me each day with a punch to the jaw. I’m never ready for it. The alarm sounds. I groan like a wounded animal and slither out of bed, dropping to the floor and army-crawling to the bathroom where I’m supposed to perform some sort of magic trick and get ready to face The World. Ugh. I’ll try to love it this month. I will.
2.      Yogurt – A vile substance intended for creatures with no teeth or taste buds, yogurt reminds me of something you’d use in construction not in nutrition. I’ve heard it’s good for you though, like in all sorts of ways, so I’ll give it a chance this month. I’m buying the one with mini-M&Ms in it though. You can’t stop me.
3.      Driving – I’m a much better passenger. It makes me feel like an important person to be driven around. I can drive. I’m good at it, but I just hate it. Probably why I live four minutes from work, my parents, and most of what I need to survive in Suburbia. This month, however, I will focus on enjoying the journey behind the wheel. I do love my car, a bright orange Subaru CrossTrek. I’ll crank the tunes and channel my inner NASCAR driver. Start your engines…
4.      Grocery Shopping – I usually go right after work on a Wednesday night, and by that time, I want people to die. Especially people who park their shopping carts diagonally in the middle of the cookie aisle. Like, I NEED my cookies, peeps! Get out of the way. I’m also one of those folks who, upon entering a grocery store, am immediately NOT hungry in any way, shape, or form. Therefore, nothing looks good to me and I end up plopping any old things into the cart just to get the heck out of there. (Besides the cookies. That’s serious business.) During the month of February, I will look at grocery shopping as a lovely opportunity to try new foods and experiment with recipes. Cooking is an art form, right? I’ll be an artist… unless you block my path to the cookies. Then I’m an assassin.
5.      Neighbors – This is going to be a tough one. I don’t talk to any of my neighbors, most of whom I’ve lived near for ten years or more. It’s nuts, I know, but they’re just not like me. (Don’t call me a snob!) This month, I will try to find some common ground, spark up a neighborly conversation, not let my 110-pound, all black, German Shepherd growl viciously at them. I’ll be friendly. I’ll smile. Well, I won’t frown. How’s that?
6.      Country Music – I love many, many kinds of music. I’ll listen to just about everything, even obscure chanting from remote places around the globe. But country music? Bleck. While I love cowboys, I can’t get into the honky-tonk tunes. I’d much rather listen to some bass-heavy rap with explicit, demeaning lyrics than someone crooning about travelin’ down a dusty road and leavin’ his heart in Alabama. I’ll give it a shot though. I’ll picture leaning against a fence while I watch a hunk in faded jeans and cowboy boots tame a wild horse. Yeah, this could work. Give me some country music suggestions too, because I don’t even know where to start on this one.
7.      Fashion – If it were up to me, I’d wear a uniform every day, preferably my pajamas. Making fashion decisions makes my head hurt. Part of my reasons for not liking The Morning is that I have to figure out what to wear to work. It’s not too hard because everything in my closet is black or black, but I still struggle. This month, I will try to branch out of the black zone (hey, I did buy a purple purse last month) and really put some love into my style choices. Again, if anyone has suggestions on must have fashion items, please let me know. I need tutoring. Badly.

So there’s my seven. I’m not saying I’ll be able to love everything on this list by the time the month is over, but it’s a goal. I’ll do my best. At the very least, making this list gave me some ideas for character traits to give my fictional friends in my books. Win!

What are some things you don’t love but could try to love?

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Toodles,

Chris
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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Do You Fear Losing Your Writing Dreams?

By Glenys O'Connell

As writers, we’re dreamers – and I don’t just mean about characters and plot lines.
  No, we also fantasise about our soaring careers, about signing books for hordes of adoring fans, of watching our titles fly up the NY Times bestseller list, of being invited to chat with Oprah, of writing non-fiction that catapults us onto the speech circuit as An Authority.
And then we daydream about what we’ll do with all those millions or how we’ll parlay our growing knowledge into something that will help change people’s lives…. Yes, there are probably as many dreams as there are writers. About the life we’ll lead as Famous Writers whose books are Bestsellers.
But here’s the hard truth: these dreams have little to do with your success as a writer – unless you act on them.
To be successful you need talent, yes, and a commitment to your work. You need to use that talent to turn those dreams into something approximating reality.
The simple truth is that first and foremost, a writer writes. It’s that simple. The complicated bit comes in knowing what you should be writing and in planning for your success. Don’t give up the dreams, just temper them with a little feet-on-the-ground common sense.
Find a way to turn them into goals. Plan your writing career as you would any other endeavour that’s important to you. Dream big, for sure, but keep one eye firmly fixed on your own reality.
But whatever your writing ambitions, you need a plan.

Consider these points:

1) A dream is not a goal – recognise the difference between your writerly dreams, and what would really satisfy you. Ask yourself why you write – would you be surprised to find that the answer isn’t necessarily ‘to get rich’ or ‘to be famous’?
2) Despite what you may have been told about writing every day, there are lots of successful writers who hold down full time jobs and squeeze in their writing at weekends. Their secret? They plan their work and work the plan.
3) A dose of reality – if you’ve considered #1 above, you know where your ‘success satisfaction’ lies – now find out what sort of writing would take you there.
4) Writing is hard, lonely work. Why are you doing this to yourself? What can you do to ensure your precious writing time is your own without becoming a hermit? Consider setting up a ‘support network’ of other writers (the Internet is a great resource for this!) These are other writers who share triumphs and setbacks and encourage each other – but who understand that the writing comes first.
5) Whittle away the fat: identify your writing goals. Having a road map for your writing career will help prevent you from going off at tangents that steal time, energy & creativity and prevent you from reaching your writerly destination.
6) Knowing what you want to achieve and drawing up a plan gives you an overview. This overview allows you to draw up the actions you need to take. These can be broken down even further into ‘Baby Steps’ which let you utilise even small segments of spare time to take your ambitions a little further ahead.
7) Setting up your goal calendar which outlines the tiny steps forward and shows where the giant leaps and bounds can happen.…
8) So many different types of writing work – novels, articles, copywriting, teaching, editing,
9) Career planning 101: now that you know where you’re going don’t forget to pencil in some time to evaluate each stage to make sure you’re on track – or check to see if you need to change direction…
10) Learn to cope with distractions, to be decisive in handling the everyday crisis and not to let the little things become big time stealers. You need to keep all those plates spinning at once – family, friends, day job, health, etc. – and still write. Believe me, cars and appliances break down, kids need you to volunteer at school, relatives need care, big projects will come up at work…all these things will continue to happen whether you’re writing or not. You might well be calmer and more cheerful about dealing with them if you’ve been able to do your writing quota! There are many resources with tips for writing & coping with living – search the internet for Book-In-A-Week, BIAW, Flylady, Charlotte Dillon’s site,  and any more you can come up with for tips, tricks and support.
speechwriting, speaking….oh my! Keeping an open mind about opportunities and where they might lead you will help you pick the best writing and promotional opportunities for your career.

Glenys O’Connell knows what it’s like to keep on writing through the Everyday Real Life crises and the Knock Your Sox Off type of crises, too. Along with teaching creative writing, she’s led courses in Achieving Your Goals which have helped not only writers, but people with dreams of starting a business, retiring early, or changing their lifestyle. Check out her website-in-progress at http://www.glenysoconnell.com